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She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman |  | Author: Ian Kerner
Publisher: William Morrow
Category: Book
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Rating:  123 reviews
Sales Rank: 2016
Media: Hardcover
Pages: 240
Number Of Items: 1
Shipping Weight (lbs): 0.8
Dimensions (in): 8.4 x 5.4 x 1
ISBN: 0060538252
Dewey Decimal Number: 613.9
EAN: 9780060538255
ASIN: 0060538252
Publication Date: June 1, 2004
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"When it comes to pleasuring women and conversing in the language of love, cunnilingus should be every man's native tongue," writes clinical sexologist Ian Kerner, Ph.D. in She Comes First, a straightforward, intimate, and exuberant guide to cunnilingus. Kerner first explored "the oral caress" as a way of compensating for his "sexual inadequacies," and quickly learned that women not only welcomed but often preferred "the way of the tongue," reaching orgasm more consistently than through intercourse. Kerner educates readers about the clitoris, "the powerhouse of pleasure," with 18 parts and 8,000 nerve endings (twice as many as the penis) and describes female sexual response from "foreplay" through "coreplay" to "moreplay." A large part of the book is a graphic, detailed primer on "mouth music," including best positions, step-by-step techniques (illustrated), and tips for tongue and fingers. How long should this last? Until the woman has an orgasm or many, says Kerner, and "melts blissfully before your eyes." "The vast majority of women complain about guys who don't like to do it, don't know how to do it, or simply don't do it nearly enough," writes Kerner. This book will change that. Women: Buy it for your partner! --Joan Price
Product Description
As women everywhere will attest, when it comes to understanding female sexuality, most guys know more about what's under the hood of a car than under the hood of a clitoris. And while it seems that men have struggled valiantly since the dawn of time to find ways to reliably elicit the female orgasm, rare is the guy who has the modesty to ask: "What do I do?" Ironically, the answer has always been right there on the tip of his tongue. Welcome to the world of SHE COMES FIRST, where the mystery of female satisfaction is solved and the tongue is proven mightier than the sword. According to Ian Kerner, clinical sexologist and evangelist of the female orgasm, oral sex has long been deemed an optional aspect of foreplay, but, in fact, it's coreplay -- simply the best way for leading a woman through the entire process of sexual response. Fun, informative, and easy to read, SHE COMES FIRST is a virtual encyclopedia of female pleasure, detailing dozens of tried-and-true techniques for consistently satisfying a woman and illustrated step-by-step instructions to ensure success. These simple methods represent a new era in sexual intimacy, one in which the exchange of pleasure occurs on a level playing field and fulfillment is mutual. SHE COMES FIRST exuberantly offers a fresh new sexual philosophy that inspires every man to make a mantra of Rhett Butler's infamous line to Scarlett O'Hara, "You should be kissed, and often, and by someone who knows how."
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 Mostly simply praises cunalingus September 24, 2009
C. menzies
0 out of 2 found this review helpful
I have to admit I didn't finish it, but after at least half of the book seemed to be simply the author's opinion about how great it is in quasi poetic terms, I just got sick of reading it. I think he could have done away with all of that talk by assuming that if someone bought his book, they obviously found and/or sought value in it. I waited for him to get to the point but got bored before he ever got there.
 Every considerate guys secret weapon... September 17, 2009
A. Ward (Sydney, Australia)
2 out of 2 found this review helpful
If you want to know how to reach legendary status with oral skills (and who doesn't?) you NEED this book.
End of story.
She comes first September 1, 2009
anonymous711 (Flordia)
THANKS DR KERNER! Loved the book. My hubby and I love it. (and we thought our sex life was good before we read it!;)
Buy it! August 10, 2009
tangotrawler
A streight forward clarification of how to pleasure a woman. No more guess work. This is information that both men and women need to know. Excellent book.
An interesting read... July 16, 2009
C. Johnson (California)
This book was an interesting read. While the subject matter could have been slanted in any number of ways, the author seems to given a fairly holistic treatment to the differences/similarities in approaching pleasure between the sexes. The book makes an excellent case in promoting cunnilingus as something worthy of more than mere foreplay, but an arena that should be thoroughly valued and everyone should explore. It describes a lot of why, it includes some anatomy to give a greater understanding of the geography, and last but not least, it gives some instruction, which is interesting even if you think you know the topic well.
Beyond agreeing with the thesis of the book, it was an informative read, to further understanding this aspect of female sexuality without pandering to the reader.
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