Sexual Integrity

Instincts Can Be Physical and Spiritual

Purifying Your Branch

Samson – An Example of Failure and Redemption

The New Testament describes Samson as a man of faith.  It mentions neither his failures nor his great strength.  Though he possessed great physical strength, he was a moral weakling who followed his own selfish desires and ignored God.  Do you remember his story?  Samson was the man who foolishly loved Delilah?  

Looking Good On The Inside

Thoughts On Grief In Recovery

Will She Ever Trust Me Again?

Super-Charged Communication

Thus, to show you have tracked her is evident as displayed in the 5th key.  Here you give a brief summary of what you heard and understood, nothing added based from your opinions or judgments (save it for later).  The brief statement is expressed once she has acknowledged she’s finished and has nothing to add, […]

The Challenge and Importance of Disclosure – Part 2

The Challenge and Importance of Disclosure – Part 1

Once you are ready and willing to disclose to your wife, how do you do it? Here are some things to consider. Prepare yourself by doing an inventory of your past sexual behaviors. You can’t be totally honest with your wife if you’re not being honest with yourself. Check your motive. First of all, it […]

Lost In The Wake Of Lust

Let me suggest an action item if you are tracking with these thoughts. If you’re ready, this exercise will shift your sobriety into a higher gear of recovery. List the names of the people you hurt with your behaviors and words. Think of how you hurt each one. Reflect on how each person must have […]